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  • friends

    Friends

    During adolescence your friends become really important as you become more independent from your family. Friends are important for fun and support, and when friendships work they are fantastic.  But what if we find it hard to make friends, or when friendships go wrong?How can I make friends?Friends were never … Read more

  • brothers and sisters

    Brothers and Sisters

    Brothers and sisters can go from being allies to enemies in the space of a few minutes. Managing our relationships with them can be difficult and your place in the family is likely to have an impact on this.I’m the oldestThis can be tough as you may feel like you … Read more

  • gangs

    Gangs

    Some young people are in gangs, and from the outside this may look appealing. The truth can be very different.There are many reasons someone might join a gang – some young people are looking for an alternative ‘family’, especially if they aren’t happy at home. Others join because of peer … Read more

  • New videos

    New films: what do the Heroes think?

    The Talksafe Heroes got together to talk about issues that are important to them and these videos are the result.What do the Heroes think about sexual health?What do the Heroes think about exam pressure?Meet our cousellor, Andy, who explains why you might want to talk to him and what counselling is … Read more

  • relationships

    Relationships

    When will I start having relationships?• As you become more mature, you will start to be emotionally and sexually attracted to others and interested in having relationships. • You may be attracted to the opposite sex, same sex, or both sexes. • Whatever your sexuality (straight, gay, lesbian, or bisexual), it is completely normal and … Read more

Recent Comments

  • Puberty for Girls

    very good!

    #geootrwonick[UDUDYYJJDDIY], 11/10/2012 04:53:24
  • Feeling Angry

    Oh Beth, I'm sorry for what you have been through. Bullying can be so turmaatic and have such long standing negative effects on someone. You are right about verbal insults not being true! Bullies will do anything to hurt and have power over someone else including convincing someone they are fat' or ugly' when they are far from either of those things.Are you still being bullied? If so, you really need to tell someone who might be able to put a stop to it, you shouldn't have to live your life in fear.Even when the bullying stops, it can take a long time to heal from the experience and it's important there is someone you can talk to about what happened to you.Personally I don't think there is such a thing as normal'! The only normal I know is the setting on an old washing machine or tumble drier. Seriously though, we are all different in our own right and that is a good thing. Being ill doesn't make us abnormal' it just makes us ill. People don't describe someone suffering from the flu or even cancer abnormal' but many don't hesitate to describe people suffering from mental illness as odd' abnormal' or a freak'. It's not right, is it!Keep fighting to get better hon and try to talk to someone about how you feel.

    Lazo, 28/08/2012 06:17:18