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Harming Yourself

What is self-harm?

Deliberate self-harm is where people do things like bruise, scratch, cut or burn their skin, pull their hair out or overdose.

Why do people self-harm?

People who self-harm usually describe it as a way of coping, of surviving rather than wanting to end their lives. Here are some of the reasons someone might self-harm:

• They have overwhelming feelings they cannot cope with, like extreme distress or anger. Self-harm may give someone in this situation a feeling of peace or calm.
• They feel numb and can’t ‘feel’ their emotions and self-harm might help the person feel more alive.
• Some people self-harm because they believe they need to be punished.
• For others it gives them a sense of being in control, especially if other parts of their lives feel out of their control. For example, if they have low self-esteem or have been through a family break-up, bullying, concerns over their sexuality or abuse.

Self-harm can get out of control and lead to serious problems, so if you are self-harming or feel like you might it is really important to get help. If this has happened to you, you should talk to someone. Why not speak to one of our Talksafe Counsellors or Peer Mentors?

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